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<\/a>I realized that this has been happening a bunch in my life lately, so I thought I’d share a little about it with the thought that it might inspire you. When you’re preparing for a bigger event in life, like a long-awaited trip, a move, or a graduation, there’s often this nesting impulse that takes\u00a0hold. I would say it’s true for moms, but since I’ve seen my husband go there more than once (I can almost guarantee that a part of our house will be gutted and revamped in one way or another just a few days before we expect a bunch of guests), I’m thinking it’s an even broader phenomenon than that. In anticipation of seeming disorder or the unfamiliar, we crave control. Indeed, a study of nesting<\/a>\u00a0in pregnant women found a\u00a0desire for control to be at work. We arrange, rearrange, organize and create to satisfy our need\u00a0to have control.<\/p>\nFor me, that means jumping into a new crafting project. Only five\u00a0days before we left for Italy<\/a> I found myself dashing out to the fabric store to buy some Ultra I\u00a0have to say that I was pretty relaxed about getting ready for our trip once I had the pillow stitched up. It did allow me to sleep better on the plane – well worth the mad scramble. Plus\u00a0I can send it along with Katherine, my fifteen-year-old, when she heads out on her bucket list trip later this summer.<\/p>\n Now I’m in the midst preparing for another momentous occasion: sending our eldest daughter Bethany off to work as a lifeguard at camp for the. entire. summer. (Eek!) We’ve been shopping for a list of necessities – sport sandals, polarized sunglasses, sunscreen… And in the midst of the shopping and preparing, I found myself digging out scraps of fabric for another project. This time, I dove into making reusable\u00a0snack bags for her to take\u00a0to camp to carry munchies (when you’re buying Costco-sized boxes of Goldfish crackers, you start to wond Who knows what crafting urge will strike when it’s time to get Katherine ready. Maybe the already-made pillow will suffice. But I’m not counting on it. That nesting instinct can be pretty fierce. The psychology\u00a0behind nesting before a big event explains\u00a0why I\u00a0do this. Understanding this urge\u00a0allows me\u00a0to give myself\u00a0space to be that way. It allows me to be kind to myself and see the good that comes from something that otherwise looks like “distraction.”<\/p>\n How about you? Do you find yourself launching into projects – cleaning, organizing, cooking, crafting – \u00a0before a big event? Does it help knowing why you get this way?<\/p>\n <\/p>\n![\"IMG_2281\"](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/larakrupicka.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/IMG_2281-113x150.jpg?resize=113%2C150\")
Fluffy fabric to make a neck pillow. I had come across more than one recommendation for taking one\u00a0to make the long flight more bearable, while compiling\u00a0my packing list. Which reminded me of a tutorial<\/a> I’d recently seen for making one. And the urge struck.<\/p>\n![\"SnackBags\"](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/larakrupicka.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/SnackBags-150x113.jpg?resize=150%2C113\")
er about this kind of thing. I’m sure a whole bag will end up in the guard house at some point, but it’s nice to know she can take just handfuls of them along now and then too). I’d been inspired by another tutorial<\/a> I’d seen and thought they’d be a fun gift to send her off with. Never mind that I gave them to her as they came off the sewing machine instead of wrapping them up with a bow.<\/p>\n